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Conquer Your Doubts: The Power of Action Over Inaction

“Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt.” – William Shakespeare

These words, penned centuries ago by William Shakespeare, still resonate deeply today. They capture the essence of how fear and doubt can paralyze us, preventing us from pursuing our goals and achieving our full potential.

Fast forward over 300 years, and Dale Carnegie echoed a similar sentiment:

“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit around and think about it. Go out and get busy doing it.”

Both Shakespeare and Carnegie, though separated by centuries, understood a fundamental truth: action is the antidote to fear. While doubt and inaction breed more doubt and fear, taking action—even small steps—cultivates confidence and courage.

Why is this so important?

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in analysis paralysis. We overthink, we worry about what might go wrong, and we ultimately fail to take action. This inaction only amplifies our fears and makes it even harder to move forward.

How can we apply this wisdom to our lives and businesses?

Here are a few practical strategies:

  • Identify Your Fears: What are the specific fears that are holding you back? Are you afraid of failure, rejection, or the unknown? Naming your fears is the first step to overcoming them.
  • Break It Down: If a task or goal feels overwhelming, break it down into smaller, more manageable steps. This makes it less daunting and easier to get started.
  • Take the First Step: Don’t wait for the perfect moment or for all your doubts to disappear. Take the first step, no matter how small. Once you start moving, momentum will build.
  • Focus on the Process, Not the Outcome: Instead of fixating on the end result, focus on the actions you can take today. This helps reduce anxiety and keeps you moving forward.
  • Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate your progress, no matter how small. This reinforces positive behavior and builds confidence.

Example:

Let’s say you’re a real estate agent who’s afraid of making cold calls. Instead of avoiding it altogether, you could:

  • Identify the Fear: “I’m afraid of rejection.”
  • Break It Down: Start by practicing your script with a friend or colleague. Then, make just a few calls each day.
  • Take the First Step: Make one call today.
  • Focus on the Process: Focus on delivering your message clearly and professionally, rather than fixating on whether or not you get a lead.
  • Celebrate Small Wins: Celebrate each call you make, regardless of the outcome.

By consistently taking action, you can chip away at your fears and build the confidence and courage you need to achieve your goals. Don’t let your doubts be traitors. Embrace the power of action and unlock your full potential.

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What’s Possible?

The Power of Choice: Mastering the Art of “Good, Better, Best”

Every decision involves a trade-off. When you say “no” to one thing, you’re inherently saying “yes” to something else. In business, and in life, choices aren’t always black and white. More often than not, we’re faced with a spectrum of options: good, better, and best.

This isn’t about choosing between a positive and a negative outcome. It’s about discerning which option best aligns with your priorities and long-term goals. Every choice has a sacrifice, a trade-off of time, resources, or opportunities.

Consider these examples:

  • Lead Generation: You could spend your time on cold calling (good), attending networking events (better), or developing a targeted online marketing campaign (best, if it aligns with your strategy). Each option has its own costs and benefits.
  • Client Management: You could handle all administrative tasks yourself (good), hire a part-time assistant (better), or outsource certain tasks to a virtual assistant (best, if it frees up significant time for revenue-generating activities).
  • Professional Development: You could read industry articles (good), attend a local workshop (better), or invest in a comprehensive coaching program (best, if it provides personalized guidance and support).

The ability to confidently say “no” to good opportunities so you can pursue the best ones is a crucial skill. It requires clarity, focus, and a deep understanding of your priorities.

The Benefits of Clear Decisions:

Making clear and confident decisions, whether “yes” or “no,” brings several advantages:

  • Increased Focus: By eliminating distractions and focusing on your top priorities, you can maximize your productivity and achieve more meaningful results.
  • Greater Efficiency: Clear decisions streamline your actions and prevent wasted time and effort.
  • Reduced Stress: Indecision can lead to anxiety and overwhelm. Making clear choices reduces mental clutter and promotes a sense of control.
  • Improved Momentum: Confident decisions create forward momentum and propel you toward your goals.

As you move forward, strive for clarity in your choices. Let your “no” be a firm “no,” and let your “yes” be a resounding “yes.” This intentional approach to decision-making will empower you to make choices that truly move you closer to your desired outcomes. And that is how we win the day!

 

Doing the right thing is always the right thing.
Doing the right thing is always the right thing.

The Power of Positive Habits

In today’s competitive real estate market, success isn’t just about having the right listings or the best marketing materials. It’s about how you work with your clients and how you approach your daily tasks. By incorporating positive habits into your routine, you can build a thriving real estate practice.

Harnessing the Power of Atomic Habits

Atomic Habits, a concept popularized by James Clear, emphasizes the power of small, consistent actions. In the realm of real estate, this means focusing on daily habits that compound over time. Here are a few examples:

  • Daily Prospecting: Dedicate a specific time each day to reach out to potential clients. Whether it’s cold calling, emailing, or networking, consistent effort can yield significant results.
  • Consistent Marketing: Regularly share valuable content on social media and other platforms. This can include market updates, property highlights, and helpful tips for buyers and sellers.
  • Continuous Learning: Spend time each week learning new skills or industry trends. This could involve attending webinars, reading books, or taking online courses.

Embrace the Miracle Morning

Hal Elrod’s Miracle Morning routine emphasizes the importance of starting your day with positive habits. Here’s how you can adapt it to your real estate career:

  • Silence: Meditate or practice mindfulness to reduce stress and improve focus.
  • Affirmations: Repeat positive affirmations to boost your confidence and motivation.
  • Visualization: Imagine yourself achieving your goals and overcoming challenges.
  • Reading: Read books or articles related to real estate, personal development, or other relevant topics.
  • Exercise: Get your body moving to increase energy and productivity.
  • Scribing: Journal your thoughts and ideas to clarify your goals and strategies.

Implement Basic Business Development Strategies

While habits are essential, don’t forget the fundamentals of business development:

  • Build Strong Relationships: Cultivate relationships with other real estate agents, lenders, and title companies.
  • Provide Exceptional Client Service: Go the extra mile for your clients, and they’ll be more likely to refer you to others.
  • Leverage Technology: Use CRM software, marketing automation tools, and other technologies to streamline your workflow.
  • Measure Your Results: Track your key performance indicators (KPIs) to identify areas for improvement.

By combining these strategies, you can create a sustainable and successful real estate business. Remember, small, consistent actions can lead to significant results.

What habits have you found to be most effective in your real estate practice?

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What’s Possible?

Learning to Win: Adapting to a Changing Market

The Shifting Landscape

Many of you have experienced a unique year. Your gross income has been a challenge, unit sales have seen a notable decline. This trend is starting to shift.

Back to Basics: A Timeless Approach

To navigate this changing market, we must return to fundamental principles. A crucial element is diversifying lead sources. Aim for at least four to six reliable channels to ensure a steady stream of potential clients. Additionally, our 90-day to recruiting stability plan and our “Real Estate Recruiting Playbook” offer structured approaches to maintain consistency and achieve success.

The Power of Responsiveness

A recent analysis of our top producers revealed a striking difference in responsiveness. These top performers were three times more likely to answer calls and return messages promptly compared to those struggling. This highlights the importance of timely communication in building trust and securing deals.

Good or great the choice for 2025 is yours and mine to make.

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What’s Possible?

Good vs. Great

This morning, I was inspired by a conversation about ‘Good’ vs. ‘Great’ on a team call. It reminded me of Jim Collin’s classic book, ‘Good to Great.’

As we head into 2025, let’s all strive for greatness. Great organizations don’t just follow the crowd; they innovate and create new paths. They set the standard that others emulate.

Are you ready to push the boundaries and achieve greatness? If so, I’d love to chat and explore the possibilities together. You can easily schedule a call here: calendly.com/mjsession

Here’s to a powerful and successful year ahead!

A System Will Produce What A System Will Produce, Nothing Less and Nothing More!

The Next 2 Years?

My acquaintance Lawrence Yun posted some stats about the next two years a while ago. I’ve updated those stats below. An interesting way to think about the next 24 months:

Think about it:

  • New Beginnings:
    • Births: Approximately 3.6 million per year
    • Marriages: Around 3 million per year
  • Life’s Transitions:
    • Divorces: About 1.5 million per year
    • Aging Population: 19,000 people turn 65 every day
    • Deaths: Approximately 2.8 million per year
  • Economic Dynamics:
    • Job Growth: Potential for 4 million new jobs
    • Job Mobility: Over 25 million job switches

These demographic and economic trends will likely drive the following real estate shifts:

  • Increased demand for family homes from new parents and growing families.
  • Potential demand for smaller homes or rental properties as older adults downsize.
  • Increased demand for senior living facilities and healthcare services.
  • Job mobility and economic shifts will continue to influence housing demand.

What are your thoughts on how these trends will impact the real estate market in your specific region?

A System Will Produce What A System Will Produce, Nothing Less and Nothing More!

The 5 Questions Real Estate Consumers Are Curious About

This month’s market update from KCM gives us the:

5 questions consumers are curious about:

  • When Will Mortgage Rates Come Down?
  • What Will It Take for Prices To Come Down?
  • Will I Be Able To Find a Home If I Move?
  • Will The Housing Market Pick Up Next Year?
  • Is the Market Going To Crash?

No one expects you to have a crystal ball, yet your prospects expect a fact-based point of view.  The narrative below is intended for that purpose. (DM me for the slides)

The highlights?

  • The census, Fannie Mae, MBA, NAHB, NAR project a 13% increase in home sales in 2025.
  • On a typical day in October, 29.2% more homes were actively for sale than at the same time in 2023, marking the twelfth consecutive month of annual inventory growth and the highest count since December 2019.
  • The Altos Reports –  linked below – show how this trend is driving a more “balanced market” with a slight seller advantage in many markets.
  • Mortgage rates? A study conducted by the Bright MLS indicated that 70% of buyers in the last year abandoned their search because of affordability. The folks over at Altos seem to suggest an infliction point when rates get to 6% and below.
    • The consensus of Fannie Mae, MBA, NAR, and Wells Fargo below 6 and near 5.5%
    • Remember – Bond Yields: Mortgage rates often track the yields on 10-year Treasury bonds.
    • When bond yields rise, mortgage rates tend to follow.
    • I have a white paper on “Mortgage Rates and Bond Yields.” If you are interested, send me a direct message.
  • The National Debt? A challenge for lower mortgage rates.
  • Consumer debt is at record levels, yet home equity is also at record levels.
  • The implication?
    • Historic equity – and a shortage of supply –  indicates a crash is not likely.

So what should we expect in 2025?

  1. More homes to sell next year – at least 13% more (consensus)
  2. Mortgage rates to decline below an infliction point
  3. Price appreciation to slow – a consensus projection of around 2.5%
  4. The unknown – institutional investors are holding on to a significant portfolio of residential homes – when will other investments create higher returns and an inventory sell-off?

 

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4 Steps to Crush the Rest of 2024 and Beyond

4 Steps to Crush the Rest of 2024 and Beyond:

The S.N.A.K. Framework

As we sprint toward the end of 2024 and gear up for a new year, it’s the perfect time to reassess our goals and strategies. Think about the S.N.A.K. framework to help you make the most of the remaining months and set yourself up for success in 2025.

Let’s break down each component:

S: Systems for Sustainable Success

  • Create Effective Systems: Develop routines and habits that support your goals.
  • Prioritize Tasks: Use time management techniques like the Eisenhower Matrix to focus on important tasks.
  • Automate & Delegate When Possible: Utilize technology to streamline tasks and free up time.

N: Network Your Way to Success

  • Build Relationships: Connect with people in your industry, attend networking events, and engage on social media.
  • Leverage Your Network: Seek advice from your connections, referrals, and potential collaborations.
  • Give Back: Help others in your network, as this can strengthen your relationships and open doors.

A: Accountability is Key

  • Set Clear Goals: Define specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals.
  • Track Your Progress:** Monitor your progress using calendars, planners, or project management software.
  • Find an Accountability Partner: Share your goals with a friend or colleague who can keep you motivated and on track.

K: Knowledge is Power

  • Continuous Learning: Dedicate time to learning new skills or deepening your expertise in your current field.
  • Stay Updated: Keep abreast of industry trends and advancements.
  • Seek Mentorship: Find experienced individuals who can guide you and offer valuable insights.

By implementing the S.N.A.K. framework, you can significantly boost your productivity, achieve your goals, and set yourself up for long-term success. Remember, consistency is key. Small, consistent steps can lead to significant results.

What are your thoughts on the S.N.A.K. framework? Share your experiences and tips.

What if?
What if?

Persistence

Persistence cannot be replaced.

  • Sometimes people need to hear it another way.
  • Sometimes people need more reasons to move forward.
  • Sometimes people just really don’t know how to move forward.
  • Sometimes people just need more time to make sense of it all.

Persistence cannot be replaced.

There is absolutely no substitute. Either you will lean in, stay with each opportunity, and figure it out – or you won’t.

Persistence to win the day.

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