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The Power Of Words (and Thoughts)

Your actions matter the most, yet we all know your words and thoughts matter too. The power of our words and thoughts has been proven and felt over time. Although many people say that pictures are worth more, we shouldn’t forget that the words and thoughts that come into our minds or out of our mouths carry a lot of weight.

The smallest, most insignificant words and thoughts can cause great joy or pain.

Some of the most powerful – 7, 6, and 5-word sentences –  of all time:

7 words: 

“Because of this, something good will happen.”

Repeat those words after each of the facts below:

Over 44 years, this individual overcame adversity, pain, and loss.

  • His family was forced out of their home. He had to work to support them.
  • His mother died.
  • Failed in business.
  • Ran for state legislature – lost.
  • Lost his job – wanted to go to law school but couldn’t get in.
  • Borrowed some money from a friend to begin a business, and by the end of the year, he was bankrupt. He spent the next 17 years of his life paying off this debt.
  • Ran for state legislature again – won.
  • Was engaged to be married, his sweetheart died, and his heart was broken.
  • Had a total nervous breakdown and was in bed for six months.
  • Sought to become speaker of the state legislature – defeated.
  • Sought to become elector – defeated.
  • Ran for Congress – lost.
  • Ran for Congress again – this time, he won – went to Washington and did a good job.
  • Ran for re-election to Congress – lost.
  • Sought the job of land officer in his home state – rejected.
  • Ran for Senate of the United States – lost.
  • Sought the Vice-Presidential nomination – got less than 100 votes.
  • Ran for U.S. Senate again – again, he lost.
  • Elected President of the United States.

Abraham Lincoln didn’t quit.

6 Words That Can Change Your Business

“You cannot change yourself by yourself.”

Need to stop drinking? AA

Want to get fit? A NASM personal trainer

A big test you are struggling with? A tutor

Fear of _____? A counselor

Business Development? A productivity coach

Willpower is not as strong as discipline, and discipline requires accountability. Who’s helping you with the accountability of your ambition, dreams, goals, and desires?

5 Words That Kill More Dreams Than Any Other

I don’t feel like it!

 How many times have you said, “I don’t feel like it?”  How many times have you listened to that thought, allowing it to alter the course of your actions?

What if you could make a different choice?

 “I don’t feel like it” can be turned into “I’ll do it anyway.”

Note to self: “Feeling like it is not a pre-requisite.”

Who’s in charge, you or your feelings? Here are a few ways to become an ANTeater  – an automatic negative thought eater!

What You Say Matters
What You Say Matters

January Will Not TEXT You Back: Time To Move On.  

January will not TEXT you back… time to move on.

I was just reading a research study indicating that 95% of workers want to or plan to seek a new job in 2024! For real estate brokers, this is a two-edged sword… in one way, it opens up opportunities for recruiting and talent attraction. In another way, it’s a watch out for our own staff and agents.

My good friend and colleague Steve Murray from REALTrends did a study in the last downturn – 2008 to 2012 – and found 15 companies that grew substantially during that downturn. He found ONE common trend. It was:

“They got closer to their people. No matter how close or connected they thought they were, they were intentional about getting even closer. More connected. More relevant.”

  • Retention: how can you get closer to your organization?
  • Talent Attraction: what events or activities can you do to get closer to your own organization and invite others to experience your culture?
  • Recruiting: who do you (or your team) need to get closer with to see what’s possible?

One way is our TCF+ methodology:

  • # of Weekly Intentional Touches:
  • # of Weekly Conversations:
  • # of Weekly F2F Appointments Scheduled:
  • # of Weekly Database Additions:
  • # of Weekly Referrals you earned from your Agents and Outside Influencers:
  • # of Weekly DRIS (Data, Recognition, Insight, and Stories) follow-ups you sent:

What is measured improves.

For those in the program, I’d love to hear your success stories and your numbers for the week.

For those not in the program, let’s chat about what’s possible.

For all of us, 2024 is the year to Build Back Stronger. January will not TEXT you back…

What's Possible?
What’s Possible?

Win The Day

Two points of view:

  • By the mile, it’s a pile; by the yard, it’s hard; by the inch, it’s a cinch!
  • By the kilometer, it’s a pile; by the meter, it’s hard; by the centimeter, it’s a cinch!

Either way, you get the point.

 

Control the Controllable
Control the Controllable

Your brain is for having ideas, not holding them.

“Your brain is for having ideas, not holding them.”

Peak performers #WSD – write stuff down:

 

  • Tasks
  • Goals
  • Worries
  • Feelings
  • Thoughts
  • Debriefing (make it better notes)

 

Debrief after every:

 

  • Listing appointment 
  • Buyer showing 
  • Open House 
  • Project completion 
  • Your Day or Week 
  • Read – Glad To Be Here 

 

 

Journaling is one of the fastest ways to dump stress and gain clarity. I use the high-performance planner by Brendon Burchard

www.highperformanceplanner.com

 

Today’s Recording – Click Here

 

Every Monday Matters
Every Monday Matters

Home Ownership – Single Women vs. Single Men

A trend we all need to pay attention to… have you adjusted your marketing?

A recent study from LendingTree shows that single women own 2.7 million more homes than their male counterparts, with roughly 13% of those women holding the titles to their homes, compared to 10% of men.

Single women who live by themselves are more likely than single men who live by themselves to own a home in 47 of 50 states.
Single women who live by themselves are more likely than single men who live by themselves to own a home in 47 of 50 states.

The ONE Thing

The ONE Thing is a great book by Gary Keller. It got me thinking: what is the one thing you can execute over the next 7, 14, or 28 days?

Have you heard the story of Olympic ice skaters? It goes something like this… skaters training for the Olympics were monitored during routine practice sessions. On the ice without “supervision” athletes performed about 80 routines in 1 hour. Then, the coach came on the ice with a whiteboard, asked the athletes to document their routines, and monitored the session… routines increased from 80 to 100 in the same amount of time.

I’m often asked why I prefer group fitness classes over working out on my own… well the answer is above. Who’s going to push you more, yourself or your trainer?

In business, do you resist tracking and measuring your numbers? When performance is tracked and measured, performance improves… when performance is tracked, measured, and reported to someone, it EXPONENTIALLY improves.

So what’s the ONE thing? Increase your level of accountability.

PS: Consider these two choices:

  1. Do it NOW (take action)
  2. Regret it later

 

Perfection vs. Progress
Perfection vs. Progress

 

Survive, Thrive or Reinvent in 2024?

Morning coffee conversation: survive, thrive or reinvent in 2024?

Life is a Verb by Patricia Digh. About the New Year, she wrote:

“At the end of each year, I ask myself two questions:

1. What do I want to create in this New Year?

And, perhaps even more importantly,

2. What do I want to let go of?

 

survive, thrive or reinvent in 2024?survive, thrive or reinvent in 2024? Lorenzo's in Ormoc City, Leyte, Philippines
Lorenzo’s in Ormoc City, Leyte, Philippines

Is The Sky Falling?

Is The Sky Falling?

Adam Smith, some 233 years ago, nailed it with the concept of supply and demand. Unfortunately, he is not here now to experience “clickbait!” If you are reading a headline like “Home Prices Are Falling,” be skeptical.

Why? In general – in most markets – it’s just not the case.  Across the US, home prices are up 2.4% to a median of $425,000 compared to last year. Are there exceptions – yes, in a few segments in a few markets – reach out to me for details, or use my Altos link to look at your specific market.

Despite significant mortgage rate increases and affordability challenges, a resilient economy combined with demographic forces of demand, there simply are not enough homes for the number of qualified buyers.

Demand did drop in 2023, yet so did supply. And Adam Smith nailed it – supply and demand forces worked. To place this in perspective, at this time in 2019, there were 822,000 homes for sale nationally: today? 546,000.

Just like Wall Street, consumers love stability and predictability. As mortgage rates stabilize and normalize, we are seeing slightly more immediate sales vs. last year. This is a leading indicator that 2024 will be stronger than 2023 from a sales perspective.

Other leading indicators? For newly homes listed, Altos is reporting a few percentage points higher on the initial list price vs. the same time a year ago, and immediate sales of those homes are slightly ahead of last year.

Price cuts? Trended over time, we see about 33%; nationally, we are at 38%, so a few percentage points higher – more than normal. I suspect these relate more to affordability than other factors.

The team over at Altos reports and updates every Monday – it’s a leading indicator – much earlier than traditional channels. I’m a fan. Win The Day!

 

Every Monday Matters
Every Monday Matters