90 to 95 days… I was just looking, and basically, we have about 90 to 95 productive days left in 2024. Can you believe it?
I personally love “90-day sprints”; they are just long enough to make good progress but not so long that they get boring. Do you?
I have a 90-day sprint guide; shoot me a message to get a copy.
The great late Billy Graham said it best:
“Decisions are made whether we make them or not. Time decides if you will not. Because not deciding is a choice, decisions are made whether we make them or not. Bottom line: time is our enemy, and time ALWAYS wins unless action is taken.”
A System Will Produce What A System Will Produce, Nothing Less and Nothing More!
Habits – good or poor – start as a thin thread and become a strong cable.
Good Habits vs. Poor Habits
Habits can be our greatest allies or our worst enemies. Good habits, like regular exercise, healthy eating, and consistent sleep, build a foundation for well-being. On the other hand, poor habits, such as procrastination, unhealthy eating, and lack of exercise, can slowly erode our well-being.
The Temptation Battle: Gym vs. Dunkin’ Donuts
Across from one of my local gym locations is a Dunkin’ Donuts. This juxtaposition perfectly illustrates the daily battle between good and poor habits. On one side, the gym represents discipline, health, and long-term benefits. On the other, Dunkin’ Donuts symbolizes immediate gratification and the allure of indulgence. Every day, we face choices that either strengthen our good habits or reinforce our poor ones.
Start, Stop, More of, Less of
When it comes to habits, it’s I’ve found the key is to identify what we need to start, stop, do more of, and do less of. Here are some examples:
Start: Incorporating a routine that sets a positive tone for the day and week.
Stop: Mindlessly scrolling – approach things with intention.
More of: Daily intentional outreach.
Less of: Procrastination.
The Journey of Habit Formation
Habits – poor or good – start out as a thin thread and end up being a strong cable. This transformation to good doesn’t happen overnight. It requires consistency, patience, and a clear understanding of the goal. By focusing on small, incremental changes, I’ve found you can gradually build habits that support your desired outcome.
I’m sure you’ve read Atomic Habits. If not, grab a copy and dig in.
Habits are powerful. They shape our actions, influence our decisions, and ultimately define who we are. By consciously cultivating good habits and eliminating poor ones, we can create a business and life that aligns with our values and aspirations.
Every small step counts, and over time, these steps weave together to form the strong cable of our daily routines.
Habits – poor or good – start as a thin thread and become a strong cable.
Like many proud parents, I love celebrating my sons’ achievements—even if one chose the UCSC Banana Slugs over the UCI Anteaters! But today, I’m tackling a different kind of “ant”—the Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs) that can infest our minds.
Coined by Dr. Daniel Amen, ANTs are negative thought patterns that can sabotage our well-being. Dr. Amen’s inspiration came from a literal ant infestation in his kitchen, a stark reminder of how these mental pests can overrun our minds, stealing our joy and clarity.
Every thought triggers a chemical reaction in our brain. Negative thoughts—like sadness, hopelessness, or anger—release chemicals that can cause physical symptoms like clammy hands, muscle tension, and rapid heart rate. They can also impair our judgment, learning, and memory. Conversely, positive thoughts release chemicals that promote relaxation and mental clarity.
So, how do we exterminate these mental ANTs? First, we need to identify the common species:
Fortune Telling: Predicting negative outcomes without evidence (“I’m going to fail this presentation”).
Mind Reading: Assuming you know what others are thinking (“They probably think I’m incompetent”).
Guilt Beatings: Using “should” or “must” to create feelings of obligation and self-criticism (“I should have done better”).
Blame: Shifting responsibility to others, preventing personal growth and problem-solving.
Labeling: Using negative labels to describe yourself or others (“I’m a failure,” “He’s a jerk”).
Here’s a simple three-step strategy to crush your ANTs:
Catch It: When you notice a negative emotion, pause and identify the thought behind it. What are you telling yourself?
Name It: Determine which type of ANT is at work (fortune telling, mind reading, etc.). Giving it a name helps you recognize its pattern.
Challenge It: Question the validity of the thought. Is there real evidence to support it? What’s a more realistic or positive way to view the situation?
Example:
Thought: “I’m going to mess up this meeting.” (Fortune Telling)
Challenge: “I’ve prepared thoroughly. While things might not go perfectly, I’m capable of handling whatever comes up. Focusing on the potential negative outcome is only making me more anxious.”
By consistently practicing this three-step method, you can weaken the power of ANTs and cultivate a more positive and productive mindset. Don’t let these mental pests control your thoughts and emotions. Take charge and reclaim your mental well-being.
“Onward and upward” is a mindset that requires optimism, empathy, curiosity, and action.
Optimism is the ability to overcome adversity despite the circumstances.
Empathy is understanding situations from another’s perspective with no judgment. The ability to choose to respond rather than to react.
Curiosity. To be effective, be curious: curious about how people are feeling, curious about why things happen, curious about the future, curious about steps to take to navigate difficult waters.
Action. The winners are the doers. Talk is cheap; action speaks.
When we make changes by design vs. default, we can craft a future that supports the growth we deserve.
In today’s fast-paced world, there are countless conference opportunities for agents, team leaders, and broker-owners. Among them, Inman Connect events in New York and Las Vegas. This year’s Las Vegas event was no exception, offering a wealth of learning and networking opportunities.
The main topic?
Co-op commission sharing is dead, and how to move forward in a new commission model.
No matter which conference you choose to attend, it’s essential to have a plan for what comes next. That’s where my 4-Step Post-Conference Guide comes in. Professional conferences are unparalleled opportunities to expand your network, gain fresh ideas, deepen connections, break out of your routine, and shake things up.
Yet, many of us struggle to take action after these events. Why is that?
Often, it’s because we return home with an overwhelming amount of information to process.
To combat this, it’s crucial to create a post-conference action plan that empowers you.
The key to a successful post-conference routine is taking ACTION.
Here are 4 steps to maximize your conference investment:
Network Post-Event: Don’t let those valuable connections fade away. Follow up, close the loop, and build relationships for referrals, accountability, and more.
Leverage Your Social Channels: Showcase your commitment to excellence and service by sharing your conference experiences on social media. Highlight how your time investment benefits your customers and potential clients.
Organize Your Notes into a Checklist: Commit to action by creating a checklist of key takeaways and sharing it with an accountability partner, mentor, or coach. Checklists are powerful tools that help you get more done and keep your brain happy. According to research summarized by best-selling author Maria Konnikova, here’s why:
Your Mind Seeks Organization: Lists tap into our preferred way of receiving and organizing information at a subconscious level.
Spatial Processing: It’s easier to remember items when they’re written down in bulleted or numbered points.
Categorization: We process information more efficiently when it’s organized into lists rather than clustered in paragraphs.
Time Awareness: Knowing how long tasks will take increases our commitment to completing them.
Self-Reinforcement: Checking off items from a list provides a dopamine hit, encouraging us to return to the list for more.
Do your brain a favor and break down what you learned into actionable checklists.
Take Action NOW!: Don’t wait! Procrastination only delays your success. Implement what you’ve learned immediately.
So, there you have it—4 steps to make the most of your conference experience!
Let’s face it: your real estate sales and service business is a commodity. So, how do you stand out?
First, understand that selling a service is much different than selling a product. Some examples?
The Marketing Mix (4 Ps):
Products: The marketing mix includes Product, Price, Place, and Promotion.
Services: The extended marketing mix adds People, Process, and Physical Evidence (Social Proof).
Customer Involvement:
Products: Customers evaluate products based on features, price, and brand reputation.
Services: Customers actively participate in service delivery. Their experience influences satisfaction, loyalty, and future referrals.
Intangibility:
Products: Tangible goods can be seen, touched, and evaluated before purchase.
Services: Services are intangible; customers experience them during or after consumption. Marketing focuses on conveying the value of the service rather than showcasing a physical product.
Marketing Strategies for Commodity Real Estate Sales
Deliver Consistent Quality Even in a commodity market, consistency matters.
Your Affiliate Network: Ensure all of your recommended providers meet or exceed your quality of experience standard. Your brand is only as good as your extended network of providers.
Professional Presentation: Invest in professional photography and staging services. High-quality images create a positive first impression.
Transparent Communication: Reliable and consistent communication builds trust.
Diversify Your Expertise Consider these strategies:
Niche Markets: Identify specific property types (e.g., luxury homes, waterfront properties) or demographics (e.g., first-time homebuyers, retirees). Tailor your marketing efforts accordingly.
Additional Services: Offer value-added services like property management or relocation assistance. Diversification attracts a broader clientele.
Collaborate with Professionals: Partner with mortgage brokers, interior designers, or contractors. Comprehensive solutions enhance your reputation.
Customization Personalization is key. Tailor your services to individual customer needs:
Buyer Profiles: Understand buyers’ preferences. Customize property recommendations based on their lifestyle and requirements.
Personalized Follow-Up: After a transaction, send personalized messages. Small gestures build lasting relationships.
Enhance Customer Experience Exceptional customer experience turns clients into advocates:
Quick Response Times: Be accessible and attentive. Respond promptly to inquiries.
Educational Content: Share informative content on your website or social media. Position yourself as a knowledgeable resource.
Post-Transaction Support: Provide resources for moving, home improvement, or local services.
These are just a few ideas to consider. Remember, your unique approach and dedication to the client experience will set you apart in the competitive real estate market.
In the ever-evolving real estate sales and service world, collaboration and networking have become essential tools for success. Let’s explore how real estate professionals can harness these strategies to thrive in their careers:
The Power of Collaboration
Home Stagers and Agents
Collaboration between home stagers and real estate agents is a dynamic partnership. Here’s why it matters:
Understanding Buyers: Home stagers think like agents first. They consider the likely buyers: what they seek in a home, their preferences, and aspirations. By aligning staging with buyer profiles, they create spaces that resonate.
Beyond Generic Staging: Avoid generic room presentations. Instead, focus on charm, character, and distinctiveness. Today’s buyers crave uniqueness.
Builders and Stagers
One of the agents that aligned with us in Texas always marketed her listing like a new home builder would. And in her market, that made a lot of sense as re-sales frequently compete with the builder’s latest addition. Builders and home stagers also collaborate to showcase model homes effectively:
Communication: Builders and stagers must communicate openly. Builders’ insights combined with stagers’ expertise lead to optimal presentations.
Creating Vision: Stagers help buyers see beyond a house’s bones.
Networking
Real Estate Agents and Loan Officers
Mutual Referrals: Successful agents and loan officers build strong relationships. Beyond referrals, they share insights, market trends, and client needs.
The Art of Networking
Know Your Audience: Networking isn’t just about collecting business cards. Understand who you’re connecting with—agents, lenders, or stagers. Tailor your interactions to their needs.
Attend Industry Events: Conferences, workshops, and local meetups provide networking opportunities. Engage, learn, and expand your circle.
Online Platforms: Leverage social media and professional networks. Join real estate groups, participate in discussions, and build virtual connections.
The Future: Collaborative Success
As the real estate landscape evolves, collaboration and networking remain pivotal. Embrace these strategies, connect with fellow professionals, and thrive in this dynamic industry.
Success isn’t a solo journey—it’s a collaborative adventure!
