While actions are crucial, the words we use—both to ourselves and others—have immense power. They shape our thoughts, influence our emotions, and ultimately drive our actions. Even the smallest words can have a profound impact, bringing joy or inflicting pain.
Consider the resilience of Abraham Lincoln. Over his lifetime, he faced a relentless series of setbacks: business failures, electoral defeats, personal tragedies, and even a nervous breakdown. Yet, he persevered.
Forced from his home as a child, burdened by debt after a failed business venture, and heartbroken by the loss of his fiancée, Lincoln faced adversity at every turn. He lost numerous elections, suffered a debilitating nervous breakdown, and yet, he never gave up. He ultimately rose to become President of the United States.
Imagine applying this powerful mantra to each of Lincoln’s challenges: “Because of this, something good will happen.” This simple phrase reframes adversity, suggesting that even in the darkest moments, there is potential for growth and positive outcomes.
The Power of Support:
We often hear that we can achieve anything we set our minds to, but the truth is, we rarely achieve great things alone. “You cannot change yourself by yourself.” This six-word truth highlights the importance of support and accountability. Whether it’s overcoming addiction, improving fitness, mastering a skill, or building a business, seeking guidance and support is essential. This could mean joining a support group, hiring a coach or trainer, or finding a mentor. Discipline requires accountability, and having someone to hold us accountable significantly increases our chances of success.
Conquering the “I Don’t Feel Like It” Trap:
One of the greatest dream killers is the simple phrase: “I don’t feel like it.” How often has this thought derailed your plans? The key is to recognize that feelings are not prerequisites for action. Instead of succumbing to this feeling, choose to act despite it. Replace “I don’t feel like it” with “I’ll do it anyway.”
Remember: feeling like it is not a prerequisite for doing it.
Becoming an ANTeater (Automatic Negative Thought Eater):
To conquer negative thoughts, become an “ANTeater.” This means actively challenging and reframing automatic negative thoughts. When you catch yourself thinking negatively, ask yourself:
- Is this thought truly helpful?
- Is there another way to look at this situation?
- What action can I take, regardless of how I feel?
By consistently challenging negative thoughts and choosing action over inaction, you take control of your mindset and pave the way for success. And that is how we win the day!
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