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Fear vs. Focus

The top 1% understand this: 

  • Fear causes you to lose your focus 
  • Greed causes you to lose your focus 

The remedy? 

Do the opposite: 

  • Hope creates focus 
  • Generosity creates focus 
  • Alignment with your purpose creates focus

From 1957 till his assassination in 1968, Martin Luther King, Jr. traveled over six million miles. He spoke over twenty-five hundred times, appearing wherever there was injustice – leading to the passage of the Civil Rights Act (1964).

Steve Jobs, renowned for his ability to focus, memorably explained that “focusing is about saying no,” so you create more time for your primary yes.

What do you need to say no to? 

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Goal Setting vs. Goal Getting

The top 1% are not impressed with goal setting; they are impressed with goal getting. 

Reaching new goals – being a goal-getter – and moving to a higher level of performance always requires change, and change feels awkward. Yet the top 1% understand that change is situational, yet transition is psychological. All transitions have an ending, a neutral zone, and a new beginning.

Take comfort in the knowledge that if a transition doesn’t feel uncomfortable, it’s probably not really a transition; it is more like rearranging the same furniture around in the same room. 

In transition, disorientation is normal before equilibrium comes back.  

What is standing backstage – and might be uncomfortable yet exponentially powerful – in your business ready to make an entrance? 

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Growth Does Not Just Happen

The knowledge you need to reach your dreams isn’t going to track you down and force itself upon you.

  • Growth does not just happen.
  • The top 1% have become intentional learners.

There are numerous benefits to becoming an intentional learner: You become more creative, and you develop your own unique perspective and exposure to ideas on how to improve business.

When the student is ready, the teacher arrives!

 

Your Goals Must Be Activated!

Insights from the top 1% …

“Your goals must engage and activate you!”  

Having concrete goals increases confidence only if they inspire and stir you to consistent action.  Said another way, the difference is getting clarity on what you really want and why. 

So what is it you really want? Ask 5 times until you get to the real answer. Hint the first answer – like selling more homes – isn’t the real answer. What’s selling more homes do for you? 

Over 650 studies show process goals – the daily activities – increase your chance of success. Want a summary copy? [email protected] for a copy.

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The Quantum Leap Strategy

Consider this:

  • Today’s smartphone have the same computing power as the whole US government in 1983
  • 3D printing is the only technology where a more complex object doesn’t cost more to make
  • The average lifespan of an S&P 500 company has gone from 67 years to 12 years today
  • Autonomous driving cars will prevent 30,000 road deaths in the US alone

Exponential Growth

Exponential growth does not just apply to technology, large or small firms. Exponential growth applies to you and me.

One of the most influential books I’ve read. The book is just 36 pages long yet is packed with practical insight and action-creating motivation. It’s called “You Squared by Price Pritchett,” an instruction manual for taking a quantum leap in your business and life.

Pritchett states, “we don’t have to be content with incremental, gradual change through applying hard work.  Rather, we are capable of an explosive jump in performance at an accelerated rate, requiring less effort.” How?

Here is a summary:

Quit Trying Harder – Trying harder only produces incremental gains.  A quantum shift is an elegant solution requiring less effort.

Ignore Conventional Approaches – A quantum leap requires an abrupt change in behavior. It requires finesse over effort, simplicity over complexity, a new paradigm, and a fresh perspective.

Think Beyond What Common Sense Would Allow – Quantum leaps require “uncommon sense.” Rethink your thinking.  Violate the boundaries of the probable.

Suspend Disbelief – Act as if your success is for certain and proceed boldly.

Focus On Ends Rather Than Means – Having a clear picture of what you want to accomplish is crucial.  Solutions will appear. Draw the map as you go.

Rely On Unseen Forces – When you focus on the clear picture of what you want to accomplish and move confidently toward it, unexpected and unknown resources materialize.

Choose A Different Set Of Rules – You can never avoid risk; you can only choose which risks you will take.  Risk believing in yourself.

Trust In The Power Of The Pursuit – Dreams begin to crystallize into reality when they are pursued, because the world behaves differently when you go after what you want.

Seek Failure – Unless you are willing to fail, you will never have the opportunity to test the limits of what you can accomplish.

Get Uncomfortable – Quantum leaps jerk you out of your comfort zone.  If you aren’t experiencing discomfort, the risk you are taking probably isn’t worthy of you.

Open Your Gifts – Unused gifts are waiting to play a role in your quantum leap; open them.

Fall In Love – Create a dramatic dream that goes beyond the ‘reasonable,’ and then allow it to become your “magnificent obsession.”

Make Your Move Before You Are Ready – You don’t prepare for a quantum leap; you make it… and then fine-tune it as you go.

Look Inside For The Opportunity – Everything else that’s needed comes from inside you, not from anything outside you.

If you take the leap, consider what area of your business is holding you back.

Maybe it’s hiring an assistant, outsourcing that new digital ad campaign you desire but don’t have the skills or time to pursue, or delegating your files to a transaction coordinator? Whatever it is, one or more of the principles Pritchett presents, I suspect, resonates with you, so…  just do it!

Take the leap… and see you and your business take a quantum leap.

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Taking Action

Take action!

We can’t do everything today, but we can do one thing, even a tiny thing. 

The winners are the daily doers. 

Research: Those who do not feel they are taking steps toward their goals are 5 times more likely to give up. Elliott ‘99. 

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Taking Action
Taking Action

Only You Can Say If This Is A World You Can Succeed In 

Only you can say if this is a world you can succeed in. 

“Whether You Think You Can Or Think You Can’t, You’re Right.” ~Henry Ford

Research – Franklin & Mizell – showed the more optimistic people viewed their surroundings, the greater they were satisfied with their jobs and their outlook for future success. 

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What Story Are You Telling Yourself?

Have you ever thought that the person you have the most conversations with is YOU? And if that is the case for you and me, then the next natural question is, “what story are you telling yourself?” 

Various studies suggest we have anywhere from 6,200 up to 60,000 thoughts a day! Not sure who counted them all, but that is a lot of conversations going on in our heads. 

From this, we can conclude that one of the tendencies of the mind is to focus on the negative and ‘play the same songs’ repeatedly. One study suggested that 80% of our thoughts are negative and 95% of them were the same repetitive thoughts as the day before. So why is this, and what can we do about it? 

 

Why is it easier to think negatively?

 

The fact is negative events have a more significant impact on our brains than positive ones. Psychologists refer to this as the negative bias or also called the negativity bias.  Combine this with what psychologists call a confirmation bias, and you have a one-two punch. 

Confirmation bias is the tendency to listen more often to information that conforms with our pre-existing beliefs. Through this bias, people tend to favor information that reinforces the things they already believe. These biases combined have a powerful effect on our behavior, our decisions, and even our relationships.

In the Leahy Study, 2005, from Cornell University, scientists found that 85% of what we worry about never happens, and 15% of the worries did happen. 79% of the subjects discovered that either they could handle the difficulty better than expected or that the problem taught them a lesson worth learning. So, the conclusion? 

 

97% of our worries are baseless and result from an unfounded pessimistic perception.

 

Some ideas to redirect negative thoughts: 

  1. Start with a mindset of “No Judgments.” 
  2. Reframe the story. 
  3. Reframe your expectations.  
  4. Find a healthy distraction. 
  5. Commit to keeping optimistic company. 
  6. Question and rotate the media you choose to consume. 
  7. Start a beginning of the day and end of day gratitude journal 
  8. Connect with a mentor, coach, or trusted advisor 

If we took the time to document all the thoughts that pass through our minds, we could write a book every day.  Yet would that book be one that anyone else wants to read? Create a better story, wrote a better book. The question is: 

 

Who’s in charge you or your thoughts?

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Technology vs. Relationships

Technology vs. Relationships.
The top 1% approach it differently.

Peter Sheehan, a leading expert on generational change and business performance, wrote about how peak performers use technology yet stay in touch with genuine relationships.

There are over twenty different ways to affirm others, but you can reduce them to just two verbs:

Notice and Verbalize.

What would happen if today:

  • At family gatherings, invite everyone to mention something they admire about another family member.
  • Look for someone making do in disappointing circumstances and affirm their perseverance.
  • When someone helps you change your mind about an issue, affirm their persuasiveness and communication skills.

Success can take many forms, like affirming others through noticing and verbalizing.

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Why Do Most Efforts To Change Fail?

Well, that is a bummer of a headline! Read on.

“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.”

~ Leo Tolstoy

According to Harvard professor Dr. John Paul Kotter – and confirmed by my coaching experience – efforts to change fail due to a lack of a STRONG sense of URGENCY. In his book, “A Sense Of Urgency,” Kotter states:

Change efforts most often fail when those desiring to change do not create a high enough sense of urgency to make a challenging leap in a new direction. Urgency and urgency is key. Urgency is the state of mind that creates IMMEDIATE action in your new direction.

Once you have determined your desire, take action. Any action. A small step, a medium step, or a massive step. Taking action and taking more action is the ONE THING we must all learn to cultivate to achieve higher levels of success.

If you believe what you have in mind will make a difference, I just have two questions.

  • What are you waiting for?
  • What’s holding you back?

Whatever it is, push through it today and TAKE ACTION.

Share with someone right now the action step you are committed to taking… and ask them to help hold you accountable.

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