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Top Gun – What The 1% Do Consistently

Think about it. In sports –  and all other endeavors – the game is won in the days, weeks, and even months leading up to the actual game, event, or project. The game is won in preparation. Watching films of previous games, memorizing plays, hitting the gym, eating correctly, and even getting enough sleep.

Professional real estate sales are no different.

I spend a lot of time with the top 1% of producers, helping them grow, solving business challenges, and documenting what they do. Curious?

Here are the top six things our top 1% do consistently:

  • They do their research.
  • They’re genuinely interested in and understand others’ personality styles.
  • They’re prepared for anything, especially the objections and most frequently asked questions.
  • They leave their ego in the car.
  • They are a master of managing expectations.
  • They debrief and learn from every situation.

Research

We know from the National Association of REALTORS® that 63% of consumers find real estate professionals through a referral from a friend or a past business relationship. And 68% of consumers choose a real estate professional based on their perceived trustworthiness, experience, and reputation.

Top producers know these numbers and invest their time, energy, and effort into where the business will most likely be generated.

Genuine Interest

What I have observed from top producers to those struggling is glaring. Top producers genuinely care about the relationship, while those struggling care about making a buck.

I’ve used a unique system called B.A.N.K. to pinpoint anyone’s personality in nanoseconds. It’s fun, engaging and helps create rapport.

This high emotional intelligence approach leverages the best assessment tools, high-energy training, and cutting-edge technology to maximize results.

Leave Nothing To Chance

Top performers rehearse or role-play frequently; many do this every day! Here are some tips I picked up:

  • Make a list of every question, concern, or objection your prospect might bring up.
  • Create a list of everything that could go wrong.
  • Develop a transparent, logical, authentic, and persuasive response to every possible question, concern, and objection.
  • Think of how you can get ahead of these circumstances by using stories and anecdotes, case studies and testimonials, statistics and facts.
  • Have your information, ideas, and documentation well organized so you can reference the appropriate notes and materials at any time.

Ego

Gary Vaynerchuk put it well: “When you care more about the other person than you care about hitting your quota – when you make that shift – you go into the Jedi-ness of becoming a great salesperson.”

A professional real estate salesperson with a massive ego can easily mistake refusal for rejection. When you make this mistake, it’s all too easy to take it personally. The truth? Far more people will say no than say yes.

So, how do you deal with this?

The top 1% have learned not to internalize rejection. Top performers exert power over their emotions and know this is a critical skill to master.

Managing Expectations

As a former Chief Executive of a large organization and co-founder of a going concern, I get the problems that others have not solved. And literally, I’ve been tracking these, and guess what – they all have a common root:

Unmatched expectations!

Many things have to happen, often in a specific sequence, before a transaction closes. Do you know what these things are? Do you know where you’re at in the process with each client, prospect, and partner?

  1. Seek to understand what has come before each step
  2. Don’t assume everyone knows what will happen next
  3. Anticipate needs before others
  4. Communicate constantly and clearly
  5. Under-promise and over-deliver

Debrief

Debriefing is a structured learning process designed to evolve plans while they’re being executed continuously. It originated in the military to learn quickly in rapidly changing situations and address mistakes or changes in the field. In fact, I shared this document with my team – glad to be here – after seeing the Blue Angels do a flyover.

In business, debriefing has been widely documented as critical to accelerating projects, innovating novel approaches, and hitting challenging objectives. It also brings a team together, strengthens relationships, and fosters team learning.

Top producers have mastered this concept and execute this discipline more often than others. As such, these high-performing teams are more tight-knit than those who don’t.

The game is won or lost before stepping on the playing field. So, before you play in sales again, do your research, be genuinely interested in others, be prepared for anything, leave your ego in the car and become a master of managing expectations. Finally – just like the Blue Angels – debrief and learn from every situation.

#WinTheDay

 

Beyond the Surface: Discovering Your True “Why”

A few years ago, I was coaching a real estate agent who was eager to implement some new sales strategies. “I can’t wait to begin,” she exclaimed to me.

Instead of simply praising her enthusiasm, I asked a simple but powerful question: “Why is that important to you?”

Her initial answer was predictable: “To sell more homes.”

But I kept digging:

  • “Why do you want to sell more homes?” “To make more money.”
  • “Why do you want to make more money?” “To buy a larger home.”
  • “Why do you want a larger home?” “So my mother and sister can move in with me.”
  • “Why is that important?” “It’s been our dream to live together as a family.”

This conversation revealed something crucial: she didn’t really want to sell more houses. Selling more houses was simply a means to an end. What she truly desired was the experience of living with her family in a shared home. Her “why” wasn’t about sales figures; it was about family connection and fulfilling a long-held dream.

This principle applies to all areas of life, not just real estate. We often focus on surface-level goals—more sales, a promotion, a bigger paycheck—without considering the deeper motivations behind them.

Why is it important to uncover your true “why”?

  • Increased Motivation: When you connect with your core motivations, you tap into a powerful source of intrinsic drive. This makes it easier to overcome obstacles and stay committed to your goals.
  • Clearer Focus: Understanding your “why” helps you prioritize your actions and make decisions that align with your values.
  • Greater Fulfillment: Achieving surface-level goals without a strong “why” can leave you feeling empty. Connecting with your deeper motivations leads to a more meaningful and fulfilling life.

How can you discover your own “why”?

Use the “5 Whys” technique, as demonstrated in the opening example. When you identify a goal, ask yourself “why” five times (or as many times as necessary) to peel back the layers and uncover the underlying motivation.

Example:

  • Goal: I want to get a promotion.
  • Why? To earn more money.
  • Why? To provide a better education for my children.
  • Why? Because I want them to have more opportunities than I did.
  • Why? Because I want to ensure they have a secure and fulfilling future.

In this example, the true “why” is about providing for the next generation and ensuring their future well-being.

What are your goals? Take a moment to ask yourself “why” and dig deeper. You might be surprised at what you discover. Uncovering your true “why” is the first step towards achieving lasting success and fulfillment. And that is how we win the day!

So what is it you REALLY want?

 

Imagine That
Imagine That

 

 

Commitment And Courage: C > F = R

“In playing ball, and in life, a person occasionally gets the opportunity to do something great. When that time comes, only two things matter: being prepared to seize the moment and having the courage to take your best swing.” ~ Hank Aaron

How To Seize The Moment?
C > F = R
When your commitment is greater than your feelings, than you get the result you want.

How To Build The Courage?
C > F = R
When your courage is greater than your fear, than you get the result you want.

#WinTheDay

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Commitment And Courage: C > F = R
Commitment And Courage: C > F = R

 

The Inspiration Equation

From John Maxwell. Use the “Inspiration Equation” to connect. This equation has three elements:

What People Need to Know.

Show others that you are on their side and care about them, that they matter to you, and that you expect significant things from them.

What People Need to See.

Demonstrate your conviction, character, and credibility concerning your area of expertise.

What People Need to Feel.

Be confident and passionate about your subject matter. Demonstrate your gratitude for allowing those around you to share in your passion.

When you first meet someone, how you communicate makes all the difference. Once someone knows you, credibility will become vital in maintaining your bonds with them.

#WinTheDay

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The One Thing Is: TRUST

Stephen Covey’s book proves it, and Google’s research reinforces it… there is ONE thing in common to every individual, relationship, family, organization, and government throughout the world. When removed, the one thing will destroy the most powerful army, the most successful business, the greatest friendship, and the deepest love.

The ONE Thing Is TRUST!

TRUST is the most significant predictor of an individual’s satisfaction within their team.

According to Google research, TRUST, not a brand, is the number #1 factor consumers use in selecting an agent.

So, what is trust? Jack Welch, the legendary CEO of General Electric, said about trust, “You know it when you feel it!” In any relationship, what you do has a far greater impact than what you say. Thus, trust is established through ACTION, and action is driven by your behaviors.

In his book The Speed of Trust, Stephen Covey outlines 13 behaviors that drive trust. The first five behaviors relate to character, the second five relate to competence, and the remainder are a mix of the two.

The 13 Behaviors Are:

  1. Talk straight
  2. Demonstrate respect
  3. Create transparency
  4. Right wrongs
  5. Show loyalty
  6. Deliver RESULTS
  7. Get better every day
  8. Confront reality
  9. Clarify expectations
  10. Practice Accountability
  11. Listen first
  12. Keep commitments
  13. Trust others… extend trust to others as part of your DNA

Covey believes the quickest way to decrease trust is to violate a behavior of character, while the fastest way to build trust is to demonstrate a behavior of competence.

In the end, in today’s modern, fast-paced economy, trust is essential to our mutual prosperity. We can create it, we can restore it, and we can extend it.

Trusting this post will prompt you toward a more powerful week. How will you practice trust this week?

#WinTheDay

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