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Stop Wishing, Start Doing: My Take on Dr. Bill Dyment’s Killer Goal-Setting Advice

05/08/202505/08/2025 Mark Johnson Leave a comment

Alright, let’s get real. We all have goals, big and small. But how many of them actually see the light of day? If you’re like most people, a frustrating number of those ambitions end up as “nice ideas” that never quite materialize. It’s a tough pill to swallow, especially when we want to see ourselves as people who get things done – as doers.

My good friend, Dr. Bill Dyment – a powerhouse “Team Doctor,” Executive Coach, and the guy who literally wrote books like “Fire Your Excuses” – recently shared some absolute gold on this very topic. His post from May 8, 2025, was packed with research-backed strategies that are too good not to amplify and put my own spin on. Because, at the end of the day, talk is cheap; it’s the doers who win.

So, here are some of Dr. Dyment’s game-changing tips, translated into my kind of straight talk:

Write It Down, For Crying Out Loud!
Dr. Dyment highlights a stark stat: goals only “in your head” have a pitiful 4% chance of success. Want to actually achieve something? Get it out of your brain and onto paper (or a doc, whatever). It’s the first step to making it real.
Get an Accountability Partner – A Real One.
This is a biggie. Share your progress with someone you trust at least every two weeks. Dr. Dyment points to research showing this skyrockets your chances of success to 74%! And make sure it’s someone who won’t just blow smoke; you need an honest mirror, not a “yes man.”
Schedule a “Me CEO” Meeting.
Treat your goals like serious business. Dr. Dyment suggests a weekly personal business meeting. This isn’t just calendar organizing; it’s dedicated success planning.
- Make it special: Find a unique spot for this meeting. Train your brain: “When I’m here, it’s go-time for my goals.”
- Rhythm: Start small, but aim for: an hour a week, a half-day a month, a full day a quarter, and even a weekend a year. Sounds intense? So is success.
Engineer Your Environment for Success.
Stop making it easy to fail.
- Surround yourself with winners: Connect with people already doing what you want to do. Join groups, online or IRL.
- Make bad habits a pain: Dr. Dyment uses the ice cream example: no ice cream in the freezer. If you really want it, you have to go out and pay top dollar for a single scoop. Suddenly, it’s a rare treat, not a habit. Apply this logic to your goal saboteurs.
Hack Your Habits with the Premack Principle.
This is clever. Link a new goal-related behavior to something you already do consistently. Want to do push-ups? As Dr. Dyment suggests, knock out a set before you stream that show or watch the game. Simple, effective.
Zip It (Mostly) Until You’ve Done It.
This is crucial, especially in our oversharing world. Dr. Dyment warns against broadcasting your goals before you achieve them. That early applause on social media? It actually reduces your odds of success because you get your reward prematurely. Tell your accountability partners, sure. Tell those running the race with you. Everyone else can hear about it when you’re crossing the finish line.
Reward the Grind, Not Just the Win.
Milestones matter. Instead of buying all the fancy gear before you even start, Dr. Dyment advises treating yourself as you hit progress points. Stick to your workout goal for a month? Then buy those new shoes. It keeps the motivation burning.
Nail Your “Why.” Make It Unshakeable.
Your reason for pursuing the goal has to be rock solid. As Dr. Dyment puts it, wanting to “mentor my grandkids and be active with them” is a far more powerful “why” for getting fit than just wanting to “look good in a bathing suit.” A strong “why” will pull you through the tough spots.
Become It Now: Adopt the Identity.
This is a mindset shift I love. Don’t think, “I will be an athlete when I get in shape.” Think, “I am an athlete. Athletes live differently.” Operate from the identity of the person who has already achieved the goal, as Dr. Dyment advises. It changes how you approach everything.
The 3% Challenge: For the Seriously Committed.
This one’s for those who are all in, a concept from Brian Tracy that Dr. Dyment champions. Invest 3% of your yearly income in personal development – coaching, courses, skills. We didn’t blink at investing heavily in our initial education, right? This is ongoing education for success. Dr. Dyment’s promise: give up one year of fancy vacations for this, and you’ll afford better vacations for years to come. That’s an investment in doing.

So there you have it – a no-nonsense breakdown of some incredible wisdom, sparked by my friend Dr. Bill Dyment. These aren’t just theories; they’re actionable steps.

Pick one, pick a few, or go all in. Just stop wishing and start doing.

What are you going to tackle first?

(Inspired by my friend, Dr. Bill Dyment, “Team Doctor,” Executive Coach, and Author)

Stupidly Smart Marketing: How to Hijack Heuristics and Win Attention

05/07/202505/06/2025 Mark Johnson Leave a comment

Let’s Be Real: Your Audience Isn’t a Robot (And That’s Great News!)

Tired of crafting elaborate marketing strategies only to see them fall flat on social media? It might be time to get “stupidly smart” about how people really think. The core ideas for this post are sparked by the compelling insights from the article “Stupidly Smart Marketing: How to Hijack Heuristics and Win Attention” (dated May 6, 2025), which highlights a crucial secret: people aren’t making decisions like logical robots, meticulously weighing pros and cons. Instead, their brains are running on incredibly efficient autopilot, using quick mental shortcuts. And the biggest brands? They know exactly how to tap into this. This isn’t about dark arts; it’s about understanding human nature. Ready to see how?

What the Heck Are Heuristics, Anyway? (The Brain’s Brilliant Laziness)

Imagine standing in front of two restaurants: one is buzzing with people, the other is empty. Which do you instinctively feel is better? That gut feeling? That’s a heuristic – a mental shortcut your brain uses to make quick, good-enough decisions without burning too many calories. It sees a crowd and thinks, “Popular = good!” As marketers, our job isn’t to fight this, but to give the brain the right signals at the right time and let it do the heavy lifting.

The “Stupidly Smart” Marketing Toolkit: Tapping into Human Nature

Let’s look at how legendary brands subtly steer us using these built-in shortcuts, and how you can, too, starting today:

Social Proof: “If Everyone’s Doing It, It Must Be Right!”
- We’re wired to look to others for cues. It’s safety in numbers. Netflix doesn’t just say a show is good; they hit you with “82 million households watched Bridgerton!” That collective nod is irresistible.
- Your Move: Don’t just tell people you’re great; show them. Share those glowing customer reviews, display poll results (“79% of you chose this!”), or run a user-generated content campaign.
Scarcity & FOMO: “Quick, Before It’s Gone!”
- That little pang of anxiety when you see “Only 3 left!” or a countdown timer? That’s scarcity working its magic, making things feel more valuable simply because they’re limited. Nike are masters of this with their blink-and-you’ll-miss-it sneaker drops.
- Your Move: Try a genuine limited-time offer (and mean it!). Use countdown timers in your Stories for a flash sale, or offer an exclusive deal to a small group.
Authority: “The Experts Say So!”
- When a respected figure or institution gives a recommendation, we tend to listen. Think about Nike aligning with legends like Michael Jordan, or Apple showcasing Oscar-winning directors using iPhones for their films. Their credibility transfers.
- Your Move: Who are the credible voices in your space? Share endorsements, highlight any awards or certifications you’ve earned, or even showcase impressive clients.
Liking: “I Just Vibe With This Brand!”
- It’s simple: we’re more open to people—and brands—we genuinely like. Wendy’s Twitter didn’t become legendary by being corporate; they did it with sassy, human charm. Coca-Cola consistently evokes warmth and connection.
- Your Move: Let your brand’s personality shine! Respond to comments like a real human, use humor (appropriately!), and tell stories that resonate on an emotional level.
Reciprocity: “You Scratched My Back, I’ll Scratch Yours.”
- Ever feel a bit obliged to buy something after accepting a free sample at Costco? That’s reciprocity. When a brand gives us something of value first, we feel a natural urge to give back.
- Your Move: What can you offer freely? A helpful checklist, a valuable template, an exclusive discount for new subscribers, or even just insightful knowledge can build goodwill and future loyalty.
Commitment & Consistency: “One Small Step Leads to Another.”
- Once we take a small step or make a minor commitment, we’re psychologically wired to want to stay consistent. Gyms know this with their 7-day free trials; get you in the door a few times, and you’re more likely to sign up. Netflix gets you to watch one episode…
- Your Move: Start small. Launch a micro-challenge (“Reply with a 🚀 if you’re ready!”), celebrate new followers warmly, and make those initial interactions easy and rewarding.

The Beautiful Simplicity of “Stupidly Smart” Marketing

If you’re tangled in complex “10-step nurture funnels” and decision trees thicker than a novel, you might be overthinking it. The brands that truly connect and convert are often the ones that keep it simple. They’re not teaching people new behaviors; they’re aligning with the brain’s existing, energy-saving shortcuts.

Your Turn: Unleash Your Inner “Stupidly Smart” Marketer

Don’t try to boil the ocean. Pick just one of these heuristics. Brainstorm a ridiculously simple way to test it—today. No need for a committee meeting or a 50-page strategy doc. Remember, marketing that truly works doesn’t just impress your colleagues; it moves your customers. So, what simple, smart move will you make first? 🚀

Beyond the Inbox: Are You Using the Right Level of Communication?

05/06/202505/05/2025 Mark Johnson Leave a comment

Let’s talk about connecting with people. In today’s world, we’re swimming in communication tools, right? Emails, texts, DMs, video calls, social media comments… the list goes on. We can reach almost anyone, almost instantly.

But here’s a question I’ve been mulling over: With all this connecting, how much are we actually connecting? You know that feeling – maybe you have hundreds of contacts, but only a few you feel truly linked with? Or maybe you’re trying to build relationships (for work, networking, or just life!) and feel like you’re not quite breaking through the noise?

It turns out, not all communication is created equal. I came across a concept that really puts this into perspective, often called the “7 Levels of Communication.” (Michael Maher wrote a whole book about it called “7L,” focused on building relationships that lead to referrals, but the core idea applies much more broadly). It essentially ranks communication methods by their power to build genuine connection and influence.

Think of it like climbing a ladder – the higher you go, the more effort it takes, but the stronger the connection becomes.

Let’s Break Down the Levels (My Interpretation):

Instead of getting bogged down in exactly seven rigid steps, let’s think about them in zones of impact:

The Broadcast Zone (The Lower Rungs): This is your mass communication stuff. Think advertising, generic flyers, maybe those mass emails that don’t even use your name, or broad social media blasts. It’s impersonal, one-to-many.
- Pros: Reaches lots of people cheaply and easily. Good for general awareness.
- Cons: Very low impact on individuals, easily ignored, doesn’t build relationships. We get bombarded with this daily.
Getting Warmer (The Middle Rungs): Here, things start to get a bit more targeted and personal. This includes things like:
- Direct Mail/Targeted Digital: Maybe a slightly more personalized email, a specific offer, or a targeted online message. Better than a generic blast, but still often feels automated.
- The Phone Call: Picking up the phone for a real-time, voice-to-voice conversation. You hear tone, you can have a back-and-forth. Definitely more connection than email!
- The Handwritten Note: Okay, this one is powerful. In our digital world, getting a thoughtful, handwritten note feels incredibly personal and intentional. It cuts through the clutter like nothing else. It shows you took real time and effort.
The Connection Zone (The Top Rungs): This is where the magic happens for building deep trust and rapport.
- Events & Seminars: Being face-to-face with people in a group setting. You share an experience, you can chat informally, you build community.
- One-on-One Meetings: The top of the ladder! Sitting down with someone face-to-face, whether it’s for coffee, lunch, or a formal meeting. This allows for the richest communication – you see body language, share undivided attention, and build trust much faster.

Why Does This Ladder Matter?

The big “aha!” for me wasn’t just knowing the levels, but realizing the importance of intentionality. It’s super easy to default to the bottom rungs – firing off an email is quick, right? But quick and easy doesn’t always build strong connections.

If you want to:

Sincerely thank someone… a handwritten note (middle rung) beats a quick email (low rung) every time.
Build trust with a potential client or collaborator… aiming for a call or meeting (high rungs) is far more effective than just digital messages.
Resolve a misunderstanding… a face-to-face conversation (top rung) is usually much better than a tense email chain.

Choosing a higher level of communication, even when a lower level is easier, sends a powerful message: “This relationship matters,” “I value your time,” “I’m willing to invest in this connection.”

Time to Level Up Your Communication?

Looking at this, I definitely see areas where I can consciously choose to “level up.” Maybe swap a few emails for a quick call? Send a couple of handwritten thank-you notes this month? Make that coffee meeting happen instead of letting it linger in the DMs?

In a world that often feels disconnected despite constant digital chatter, being intentional about how we communicate can make all the difference. It helps us cut through the noise and build the kind of relationships – personal and professional – that truly matter.

What do you think? Do you notice these levels in your own interactions? Does this inspire you to try reaching for a higher rung this week?

Drowning in To-Dos? Find Your “ONE Thing” and Actually Get Stuff Done

05/04/202505/04/2025 Mark Johnson Leave a comment

Does this sound familiar? Your day is packed. You’re bouncing from meeting to email to urgent task, maybe grabbing lunch at your desk (if you’re lucky). You feel busy, constantly putting out fires. But at the end of the week, you look back and wonder… did I actually make progress on the things that really matter?

Yeah. I’ve been there. So. Many. Times.

It feels like we’re told the key to success is doing more – juggling projects, mastering multitasking, squeezing every last second out of the day. But what if that’s completely backward?

I recently revisited a book that fundamentally shifted how many people think about productivity and achieving big goals: “The ONE Thing” by Gary Keller (with Jay Papasan). And let me tell you, if you’re feeling scattered, overwhelmed, or stuck, this might just be the clarity bomb you need.

The Big Idea: Less Noise, More Signal

Keller’s core message is refreshingly simple: Stop trying to do everything. Focus relentlessly on the ONE most important thing.

Seriously. Extraordinary results don’t come from spreading yourself thin. They come from identifying the single most leveraged action you can take right now – the thing that, once done, will make everything else either easier or completely unnecessary.

Think of it like dominoes. You don’t have to push over every single one. You just need to find the lead domino and give it a solid push. Get that ONE Thing right, and it starts a chain reaction, knocking down bigger and bigger goals. How cool is that?

The Magic Wand: The Focusing Question

Okay, sounds great, but how do you find this mystical ONE Thing? Keller gives us a super practical tool: The Focusing Question.

Ask yourself this, over and over, for every part of your life:

“What’s the ONE Thing I can do, such that by doing it, everything else will be easier or unnecessary?”

Write it down. Stick it on your bathroom mirror. Ask it about your career goals, your health goals, your big project at work, even what you need to accomplish today. This question cuts through the clutter and forces you to identify what truly matters most right now.

Busting Those Pesky Productivity Myths

Part of embracing the ONE Thing is letting go of some common beliefs that actually hold us back. Keller calls them the “lies” of productivity:

“Everything Matters Equally”: Uh, no. Remember the 80/20 rule? A few key things drive most of the results. Find them.
“Multitasking is King”: We think we’re good at it, but science says otherwise. It tanks efficiency and increases errors. Focus is power.
“I Just Need More Discipline”: willpower isn’t infinite! Instead of relying on brute force discipline for everything, build powerful habits around your ONE Thing.
“Willpower is Always On Call”: Nope, it’s like a muscle that gets tired (or a phone battery that drains). Use your peak willpower time for your most important task. Don’t waste it on trivial stuff!
“Work-Life Balance is the Goal”: Achieving something amazing often requires intentionally imbalancing things for a while – going deep on your priority. Keller calls it “counter-balance.”

Putting it Into Action: Time Blocking is Your Superpower

Knowing your ONE Thing is awesome. Actually doing it? That’s where the magic happens. Keller’s non-negotiable strategy here is Time Blocking.

This isn’t just adding stuff to your calendar. It’s scheduling significant, sacred appointments with yourself (like, multiple hours if possible) dedicated only to working on your ONE Thing. No email, no notifications, no “quick questions.” You protect this time fiercely. It’s the time when your most important work gets done.

Combine this with connecting your big “someday” goals all the way down to the ONE Thing you need to do right now, and you build incredible momentum. Oh, and get comfortable saying “no” (politely!) to things that pull you away from your priority.

My Takeaway

Honestly, embracing this “ONE Thing” philosophy feels like permission to breathe. Permission to stop the frantic juggling act and focus on what truly drives results. It’s about clarity, priority, and focused action. It’s simple, but it’s definitely not easy!

If you’re feeling stretched thin and want to make real strides towards your biggest goals, I seriously recommend digging into this concept. Start small: What’s the ONE Thing you can do today to move closer to a goal you care about?

Give it a shot! Let me know how it goes – what’s your ONE Thing right now?

A System Will Produce What A System Will Produce, Nothing Less and Nothing More!

Breaking Through: Overcoming the Mindset Blocks Stalling Your Real Estate Success

05/03/202504/29/2025 Mark Johnson Leave a comment

Do you ever feel like you’re hitting an invisible ceiling in your real estate business? You know the potential is there – for more closings, higher GCI, a thriving team, greater market share, or simply more freedom – but progress feels like wading through mud. Maybe you’re aiming to scale your production, transition into leadership, recruit game-changing talent, or finally achieve that elusive work-life balance, yet the needle isn’t moving as fast as you’d like.

It’s incredibly frustrating in this fast-paced industry. It’s easy to point fingers at the market, interest rates, lead flow, or lack of time. While external factors certainly play a role, often the most significant barrier isn’t the market – it’s our mindset. Specifically, the limiting beliefs we hold about ourselves, our capabilities, and what’s truly possible in our business.

Thoughts like:

“Hitting the next commission tier feels impossible in this market.”
“I’m just not a natural closer/recruiter/leader.”
“I always struggle with consistent lead generation.”
“Building a truly successful team is too complex/expensive.”
“I don’t have the bandwidth to implement new systems.”
“Top producers have something I just don’t.”

These thoughts can feel like undeniable facts. But what if they’re just well-practiced assumptions holding you captive?

Why Your Beliefs Dictate Your Bottom Line

In real estate, our beliefs directly impact our actions – or inaction. Limiting beliefs often arise from past deals gone wrong, fear (of rejection during prospecting, judgment from peers, market shifts, failing after investing in growth), burnout presenting as lack of drive, or the dangerous game of comparing our “behind-the-scenes” reality to another agent’s or brokerage’s highlight reel.

These beliefs filter how we perceive opportunities, approach negotiations, follow up on leads, invest in our business, and lead our teams. They dictate whether we make that extra call, pursue that bigger listing, recruit that promising agent, or invest in that crucial technology. They become self-fulfilling prophecies that cap our potential.

The powerful truth? Beliefs are thoughts you’ve practiced. And thoughts can be retrained. Breaking free requires awareness and deliberate action.

Your 5-Step Blueprint to Shatter Limitations & Accelerate Growth

Ready to dismantle the roadblocks and unlock your next level of success? Here’s a practical plan tailored for real estate professionals:

One: Become a Mindset Detective: Identify & Challenge Your Narratives

You can’t change what you don’t recognize. Pay close attention to your internal dialogue, especially when facing challenging tasks (prospecting, negotiating, recruiting) or feeling stuck.

- Pinpoint the Thought: When you hesitate or feel resistance, what specific thought pops up? (“They won’t list with me,” “I can’t compete with that brokerage,” “This lead probably isn’t serious.”)
- Cross-Examine It: Is this belief 100% true, without exception? Can you find any evidence in your past successes, or the successes of others, that contradicts it? What’s an alternative, more empowering perspective?
- Uncover the Root: What feeling is driving this thought? Fear of failure? Imposter syndrome? Burnout? A need for better skills or support? Acknowledge the feeling, but don’t let the limiting thought dictate strategy.

Two: Plug Your Energy Leaks: Audit Your Daily Operations

Running on empty makes growth impossible. Your energy is your most valuable asset in this demanding business. Where is it going?

- Identify the Drains: Pinpoint specific activities, people, systems (or lack thereof), or even news habits that consistently leave you feeling depleted, frustrated, or unfocused. (e.g., dealing with unqualified leads, inefficient CRM use, time-sucking administrative tasks, negative colleagues, constant market doomsaying).
- Identify the Fuels: What activities, interactions, or achievements energize you? (e.g., closing complex deals, strategic planning, mentoring agents, connecting with motivated clients, learning new marketing tactics, celebrating team wins).
- Optimize & Adjust: You can’t eliminate all drains instantly, but can you qualify leads more stringently? Delegate low-ROI tasks? Limit exposure to negativity? Systematize processes? Consciously schedule more energizing, high-ROI activities?

Three: Secure Your Own Oxygen Mask First: Prioritize Peak Performance

You can’t effectively lead a team, serve clients at a high level, or recruit top talent if you’re depleted. Sacrificing your own well-being for the business is sacrificing the business.

- Schedule Non-Negotiable Recharge Time: Treat time for strategic thinking, rest, or personal development like a crucial listing appointment. Even 30 minutes daily can make a difference.
- Establish Clear Boundaries: Protect your focus and energy. Learn to strategically say “no” or “not now” to demands that derail your priorities (from clients, agents, or external sources). This isn’t selfish; it’s essential for sustainable high performance.
- Master the Fundamentals: Prioritize adequate sleep, nutrition, and physical activity. These directly impact your mental clarity, resilience, negotiation skills, and leadership presence.

Four: Define Your True North: Clarify Your Vision of Success

It’s hard to break through barriers if you’re chasing someone else’s definition of success or lack clarity on your own ultimate goals.

- Silence the Noise: Stop measuring your progress, GCI, or team size against the curated social media feeds of other agents or brokerages. Your path, market, and goals are unique.
- Anchor to Your Core Values: What principles drive your business? Integrity? Innovation? Client success? Community impact? Growth? Freedom? Ensure your goals align with these.
- Envision Your Ideal Outcome: Beyond numbers, how do you want your business and life to feel? In control? Impactful? Prosperous? Balanced? Let this feeling guide your strategic decisions and daily actions.

Five: Take Small, Imperfect Action NOW: Break the Inertia

Analysis paralysis is the enemy of progress in real estate. Waiting for the “perfect” market, script, or system guarantees stagnation. Momentum begins with movement.

- Identify One Micro-Step: What’s the absolute smallest action you can take today or this week related to overcoming a block or pursuing a goal? (e.g., Make one extra prospecting call? Research one aspect of a new CRM? Draft one sentence of a recruiting email? Identify one task to delegate? Block 15 minutes for strategic thinking?)
- Embrace Awkward Starts: Your first attempt at a new script, strategy, or system won’t be perfect. Doing it imperfectly is infinitely better than not doing it at all. Refine as you go.
- Consistency Beats Intensity: Small, consistent actions (like daily prospecting, regular check-ins, ongoing learning) build sustainable momentum far more effectively than short, massive bursts followed by burnout.

Moving Forward: The Long Game

Challenging ingrained beliefs and building powerful new habits takes consistent effort. You’ll have breakthrough days and days where old patterns resurface. That’s part of the process in this dynamic industry.

Be patient and persistent. Acknowledge your efforts, learn from setbacks, and celebrate the small wins – the successful negotiation using a new technique, the positive feedback from a mentored agent, the implementation of a time-saving system.

You possess the capability to shatter your perceived limits and achieve extraordinary results. The key is already in your hand – start turning it today.

It's Not Over Until You Win — It’s Not Over Until You Win

Navigating the AI Frontier: Practical Skills to Conquer Your Concerns and Thrive in Real Estate

05/01/202504/23/2025 Mark Johnson Leave a comment

The whispers (and sometimes shouts) about Artificial Intelligence in real estate are everywhere. You might be excited by the possibilities, or perhaps a little (or a lot!) overwhelmed. Questions like, “What is this thing anyway?” and “Will it take my job?” are completely valid.

The truth is, AI isn’t about replacing the human touch that is so crucial in our industry. Instead, it’s about equipping you with powerful new tools. And while mastering complex algorithms isn’t on your to-do list, developing practical AI skills is becoming essential for staying competitive and serving your clients even better.

So, if you’re feeling a bit lost in the AI conversation, or even a little anxious about what it all means, you’re not alone. Let’s break down the essential, actionable skills you can start developing today – no tech wizardry required:

1. Demystifying the Basics: Understanding What AI Can (and Can’t) Do

Practical First Step: Spend 30 minutes exploring a simple explanation of AI in everyday language.
- Resource Recommendation: Check out the common-sense explainer video “What is ChatGPT and How Does it Work?” by Tech Insider on YouTube. It breaks down large language models (a foundational AI technology) in an accessible way.

2. Getting Your Hands “Digitally Dirty”: Exploring User-Friendly AI Tools

Practical First Step: Identify one area of your business where you feel a bit bogged down (e.g., brainstorming listing headlines, researching neighborhood amenities). Then, look for a user-friendly AI tool designed for that task (many offer free trials).
- Resource Recommendation: For brainstorming listing descriptions and marketing copy, try a free trial of Jasper AI or Rytr. These tools are designed for content creation and have intuitive interfaces. For quick neighborhood research summaries, explore the free features of ChatGPT or Google Gemini with simple prompts like “Summarize key amenities in [your target neighborhood].”

3. Learning to “Speak AI’s Language”: The Power of Clear Prompts

Practical First Step: Once you’re in an AI tool, practice giving it clear, specific instructions. Think of it as delegating to an assistant – the more precise you are, the better the output. Start with simple requests and iterate.
- Resource Recommendation: Watch the short YouTube video “ChatGPT Prompting for Beginners” by Udacity. It provides practical tips on how to structure your prompts for better results.

4. Developing Your “AI Intuition”: Evaluating Results with a Real Estate Lens

Practical First Step: When an AI tool gives you an output (e.g., a property description), don’t accept it blindly. Ask yourself: Does this accurately reflect the property? Does it resonate with my target audience? Your real estate expertise is crucial for filtering and refining AI-generated content.
- Resource Recommendation: Read articles or blog posts that discuss the importance of human oversight in AI content generation. Search for terms like “AI bias in content” or “evaluating AI accuracy” to develop a critical perspective.

5. Understanding the Ethical Boundaries:

Practical First Step: Familiarize yourself with basic data privacy principles and be mindful of how AI tools handle client information. Look for reputable tools with clear privacy policies.
- Resource Recommendation: Review the National Association of REALTORS® (NAR) Code of Ethics, paying particular attention to articles related to data privacy and fair housing. Also, look for articles or webinars specifically addressing ethical considerations of AI in real estate.

6. Leveraging AI for Efficiency: Freeing Up Your Time for What Matters Most

Practical First Step: Explore how AI can automate time-consuming tasks, such as initial research or drafting marketing materials. By becoming more efficient, you’ll have more valuable time to dedicate to building relationships and understanding your clients’ unique needs.
- Resource Recommendation: Look for case studies or articles showcasing how other real estate professionals are using AI to automate tasks. Search for terms like “AI for real estate automation” or “real estate virtual assistants AI-powered” to see practical examples.

7. Embracing Continuous, Small-Step Learning:

Practical First Step: Subscribe to a real estate tech newsletter or follow a relevant social media account. Dedicate just 10-15 minutes a week to stay informed about new AI developments and practical applications.
- Resource Recommendation: Sign up for newsletters from real estate technology platforms or follow influencers and thought leaders in the proptech space on LinkedIn or Twitter. Search for hashtags like #realestatetech, #proptech, and #airealestate.

The AI frontier doesn’t have to feel like a daunting wilderness. By focusing on these practical first steps and gradually building your understanding with these resources, you can confidently navigate this new landscape, enhance your business, and ultimately have more time to focus on your clients’ needs.

What’s one small step and resource from above are you willing to explore this week in the world of AI in real estate?

Mind Blown: How Your Thoughts Are Actually Scripting Your Reality

04/29/202504/22/2025 Mark Johnson Leave a comment

Ever feel like life just happens to you? Like you’re constantly dodging curveballs or just reacting to whatever the world throws your way? I get it. And honestly, sometimes the whole “create your own reality” thing can sound a bit… out there. Maybe even like it’s blaming people for tough times, which nobody asks for.

But I stumbled upon this fascinating article on Psychology Today (“How Your Thinking Creates Your Reality“), and it really clicked for me in a practical, non-woo-woo way. It explained how, according to cognitive science, we actually do have a massive hand in shaping our day-to-day experience. Not by magic, but by the way our brains work. Denying this, the author argues, is actually denying our own power.

So, What’s the Deal? Control vs. No Control

The article breaks it down really simply. Think of life having three buckets:

Stuff You Absolutely Control: This is the game-changer bucket. It contains your thoughts, how you choose to interpret things, your feelings that follow, and your actions. Nobody else can climb inside your head and pick these for you.
Stuff You Can Influence: Think about interacting with others. You can smile or scowl, and it influences how they might react, but you don’t ultimately control their response. They decide that.
Stuff You Have Zero Control Over: This is all the random, external stuff – the family we’re born into, illnesses, accidents, layoffs, pandemics, traffic jams… you get the idea. Life happens.

The magic (or rather, the science) happens in that first bucket – the Control bucket.

How Your Brain Builds Your World

Here’s the process that blew my mind:

Event Happens: Something occurs (e.g., your boss gives you critical feedback).
You Think About It: Your immediate interpretation kicks in (“I’m failing at my job!” or “Okay, useful feedback to help me improve.”)
Feelings Follow: That thought directly sparks an emotion (discouragement/depression or determination/motivation).
Actions Result: You then act based on those feelings (procrastinate and avoid the boss or make a plan to address the feedback).

See how the thought was the pivot point?

Now, it gets deeper. If you think the same kinds of thoughts over and over (“I’m not good enough,” “Things never work out”), they harden into Beliefs.

And here’s the wild part: these Beliefs create a mental filter. Your brain literally starts looking for evidence out in the world that matches your beliefs and screens out stuff that doesn’t fit. The article calls it “priming.”

Think about getting a new car – suddenly you see that model everywhere, right? Same idea. If you believe “I’m unlikeable,” you’ll zoom in on the one person at the party who seemed distant and totally miss the five people who were genuinely happy to chat with you. That “evidence” then reinforces the original belief! Vicious cycle?

This filter shapes your Self-Concept – those core “I am…” (smart, awkward, capable, unlucky) and “I can…” (succeed, never find love, handle this) statements you tell yourself. These form the story you live by.

And because you expect your story to be true, you often act in ways that make it come true – the classic Self-Fulfilling Prophecy. If you go into a date expecting rejection because you believe you’re awkward, you might act nervously, fidget, and clam up… increasing the chances of, well, rejection.

Okay, So How Do We Use This? (Action Time!)

Realizing this isn’t about blame; it’s about empowerment! It means we can become active drivers instead of passive passengers. It won’t change what happens externally, but it can change everything about our experience. Based on the article, here’s what I’m trying to put into practice:

Know Your Buckets: When stressed, pause and ask: Is this something I control, influence, or have no control over? Focus energy on Bucket #1 (your thoughts/actions).
Listen to Your Thoughts: Start noticing those automatic interpretations. Are they really the only way to see things?
Challenge the Narrative: Just because a thought pops up doesn’t make it True (with a capital T). Ask: Is this thought helpful? Is it 100% accurate? Can I choose a different perspective?
Uncover Your Beliefs: What core assumptions are running the show behind the scenes? Especially the negative “I am…” ones.
Be a Detective for the Good: Actively look for proof that contradicts your limiting beliefs. Did someone give you a compliment? Did you handle something well? Don’t brush it off – let it sink in!
Rewrite Your Story: Consciously craft more empowering “I am…” and “I can…” statements. You’re the author here!
Act “As If”: Behave in line with the positive outcomes you want and the capable person you are (or want to become), even if it feels weird at first. Confidence can be built through action.
Cultivate Awareness: Just noticing this whole process is the biggest step. Awareness = Choice.

Wrapping Up

Life’s guaranteed to throw curveballs. That’s Bucket #3 reality. But realizing how much power we have in Bucket #1 – our thinking, our perspective, our response – is a total game-changer. It’s not about pretending bad things aren’t bad. It’s about choosing whether to see opportunity or only disadvantage, and deciding how we move forward.

As Henry Ford famously said (and the article quoted), “Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.”

Have you noticed how your own thinking patterns shape your experiences?

Inspired by the article “How Your Thinking Creates Your Reality” by T. Martinez, Psy.D. on Psychology Today

The Unified Four: Stop the Chaos, Start Dominating (For BOTH Agents & Recruiters!)

04/27/202504/17/2025 Mark Johnson Leave a comment

Whether you’re pounding the pavement closing deals or building the next powerhouse brokerage, listen up.

The real estate world spins fast. Deals, leads, recruits, crises, emails, calls – it’s a constant barrage. It’s incredibly easy to feel like you’re sprinting on a hamster wheel: incredibly busy, but not necessarily productiveor profitable. Sound familiar?

Too many agents are drowning in admin, and too many recruiters are lost in tasks that don’t actually land top talent. We wear too many hats, get distracted by shiny objects, and mistake motion for progress.

Here’s the unvarnished truth, applicable to everyone serious about scaling in this industry: There are only FOUR core activities that truly drive massive success. Everything else? It’s noise. It needs to be delegated, automated, or eliminated. Ruthlessly.

If you want to break through to the next level, whether that’s GCI or team size, you need laser focus on these Unified Four Pillars:

Pillar 1: Strategic Planning (Your Roadmap)
- The Principle: You can’t hit a target you haven’t defined. Reactive chaos kills growth. You need a clear plan, goals, and metrics.
- For Agents: This means defining your niche, mapping out your marketing and lead gen strategy, knowing your conversion rates, setting clear income goals, and tracking your progress. It’s your business plan.
- For Recruiters: This looks like defining your ideal agent profile, creating a strategic sourcing plan, setting recruitment targets, defining your brokerage’s unique value proposition, and outlining your onboarding framework. It’s your growth blueprint.
Pillar 2: Making It Rain (Generating Opportunities)
- The Principle: This is the absolute lifeblood. No opportunities, no business growth. Consistent, focused effort here is non-negotiable.
- For Agents: Your prime focus is generating buyer, seller or investor leads. Prospecting, executing marketing, purposeful networking, lead follow-up – filling your pipeline with potential deals.
- For Recruiters: Your prime focus is generating potential agent recruits. Sourcing talent, strategic outreach, building relationships, networking for connections, filling your pipeline with potential team members.
Pillar 3: Appointments (Creating & Converting)
- The Principle: Opportunities are worthless until you get face-to-face (or screen-to-screen) and convert interest into commitment. This is where potential becomes reality.
- For Agents: This means setting and nailing listing presentations, buyer consultations, and purposeful showings that lead directly to offers. You’re converting prospects into clients.
- For Recruiters: This means setting and conducting compelling recruitment meetings, effectively communicating your value proposition, understanding agent needs, handling objections, and securing their commitment to join. You’re converting candidates into partners.
Pillar 4: Negotiating & Closing
- The Principle: This is the high-stakes culmination. Securing the best terms, navigating the final hurdles, and getting the signed agreement.
- For Agents: You’re writing strong offers, expertly handling counter-offers, navigating inspection issues, and getting your client to the closing table successfully. You’re closing the deal.
- For Recruiters: You’re finalizing the partnership terms – commission splits, caps, support, incentives – and getting that agent agreement signed. You’re closing the recruit.

Everything Else? The DAE Zone (Delegate, Automate, Eliminate)

Take a hard, honest look at your day. Everything that doesn’t fall squarely into those Four Pillars needs to be ruthlessly evaluated:

Endless paperwork (transactions or onboarding)? DELEGATE. Find a TC or admin support.
Repetitive CRM entry? AUTOMATE with workflows or DELEGATE.
Designing marketing flyers or social media graphics? DELEGATE.
Scheduling routine follow-ups or initial calls? AUTOMATE (scheduling links!) or DELEGATE.
Fixing the office copier or troubleshooting basic tech? ELIMINATE this from your responsibilities immediately. Find support.

Every single minute you spend on a $20/hour task is a minute stolen from your $200+/hour (or $1000+/hour!) core functions – whether that’s landing a million-dollar listing or recruiting a team of top producers. Stop thinking you’re “saving money” by doing it all. You’re costing yourself a fortune in lost opportunity and growth.

The Unified Challenge:

Audit your time this week. Be brutal. How much time are you truly investing in the Four Pillars? How much is being siphoned off by the DAE Zone?

It’s time for focused action. Build systems. Leverage talent (or tech). Protect your time like the precious, high-value commodity it is. Stop the chaos. Start focusing on what actually matters.

That’s how you stop drowning and start truly dominating – no matter which side of the real estate equation you’re on. Now go make it happen.

Operating At The Speed Of Trust

04/25/202504/10/2025 Mark Johnson Leave a comment

According to a Housing Wire article dated April 10, 2025, which references a new report from Anytime Estimate (a subsidiary of Clever), the relationship between homesellers and real estate agents is evolving in 2025. While a significant majority (91%) of homeowners planning to sell in the next year still intend to hire an agent, there’s a growing skepticism about their fundamental necessity and trustworthiness.

Key findings indicate:

Decreased Perceived Necessity: Only 63% of sellers now view agents as “inherently necessary,” a notable 10-percentage-point drop from 2024.
Eroding Trust: Even among sellers who plan to use an agent, trust levels have fallen, with only 70% expressing trust, down from 81% the previous year.
Commission Concerns: Commission fees remain a primary concern for sellers, heightened by the ongoing impact and discussions surrounding the National Association of Realtors’ (NAR) 2024 settlement.

In essence, while sellers aren’t abandoning agents en masse, they are entering the market with increased scrutiny regarding agent value, justification for fees, and overall trustworthiness.

4 Steps Agents Can Take to Build Trust

Given the concerns highlighted in the report, here are four actionable steps agents can take to build and maintain trust with sellers:

Radical Transparency on Value and Process: Clearly articulate exactly what services you provide, how your expertise benefits the seller specifically (e.g., negotiation skills, marketing reach, navigating complex paperwork, saving time/stress), and outline the entire selling process upfront. Don’t assume sellers understand your value proposition; demonstrate it explicitly.
Open and Proactive Communication About Commissions: Address commission fees head-on. Explain your fee structure clearly, justify the cost based on the services rendered and value provided, and discuss how compensation works in light of recent industry changes (like the NAR settlement effects). Being upfront prevents suspicion and builds confidence.
Prioritize Honest Dialogue and Expectation Management: Build rapport through active listening and genuine interest in the seller’s goals and concerns. Provide honest feedback on the property, realistic market assessments (even if it’s not what the seller wants to hear initially), and maintain consistent, proactive communication throughout the listing period. Avoid overpromising.
Demonstrate Expertise with Data and Testimonials: Back up your claims with evidence. Share local market data, statistics on your performance (e.g., list-to-sale price ratio, days on market compared to average), and provide recent, verifiable testimonials or case studies from satisfied clients. This shifts the focus from a perceived commodity service to proven professional expertise.

Humans Are Underrated!

04/23/202504/23/2025 Mark Johnson Leave a comment

According to an article by Sherin Shibu published on Entrepreneur.com on April 7, 2025, a recent Pew Research survey identified professions highly susceptible to automation as most likely to experience job losses due to AI in the next two decades:

Cashiers: 73% of both AI experts and the general public predict fewer jobs.
Journalists: Nearly 60% of both groups foresee job reductions.
Factory Workers: 60% of experts and 67% of the public anticipate AI replacing these roles.

The survey (polling over 1,000 AI experts and 5,400 U.S. adults in late 2024, released March 2025) also showed AI experts are more optimistic about AI’s overall impact than the general public.

However, contrasting these automation trends, Geoff Colvin, in his book “Humans Are Underrated: What High Achievers Know That Brilliant Machines Never Will,” argues that uniquely human skills will become more critical in the age of AI. Colvin emphasizes that high value in the future workplace will derive from abilities machines cannot easily replicate, focusing on concepts such as:

Empathy: Deeply understanding and relating to the emotions of others.
Social Sensitivity & Relationship Building: Navigating complex social interactions and fostering trust.
Storytelling: Communicating compelling narratives that connect emotionally and contextually.
Collaboration & Teamwork: Working effectively and creatively with other humans.

This perspective aligns with the Pew survey finding that professions demanding high degrees of these interpersonal skills – such as mental health therapists, lawyers, teachers, musicians, and medical doctors – were viewed by both experts and the public as significantly less likely to face job displacement from AI in the near future.

While AI may automate routine tasks, Colvin’s work suggests the skills central to human interaction will remain essential and highly valued.

Where to Learn More:

The job displacement findings are detailed in a Pew Research survey report (March 2025).
The summary context comes from the article “These 3 Professions Are Most Likely to Vanish in the Next 20 Years Due to AI, According to a New Report” by Sherin Shibu on Entrepreneur.com (published April 7, 2025).
AI impact predictions cited include reports by Goldman Sachs (2023) and McKinsey (2023).
The concepts regarding essential human skills are explored in Geoff Colvin’s book “Humans Are Underrated: What High Achievers Know That Brilliant Machines Never Will.”

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