You cannot give someone something that you don’t already possess. As real estate professionals, we want others to believe in us, our ideas, and our services. But how strongly do we believe in ourselves?
True confidence is demonstrated by our willingness to persist, even in the face of resistance. It’s not always easy, but it’s always possible. Influential real estate coaches and even the Bible emphasize the importance of persistence.
The key is understanding the difference between persistence and pressure. Sales pressure is repeating the same message regardless of the other person’s concerns. Real estate sales persistence, on the other hand, is about empathy, adjusting your approach, refining your message, and adding more value. It’s about demonstrating that you are the best person to serve their needs.
Persistence: A Universal Principle
Persistence isn’t situational; it applies to everyone, all the time. Are you simply finding deals, or are you actively forging them? Many opportunities lie in creating interest, engagement, desire, and urgency.
Persistence communicates several crucial messages:
- Genuine Care: You believe people are better off working with you. You’re changing lives.
- Confidence: You believe in your abilities. Your actions, words, and questions make the difference.
- Understanding and Targeted Solutions: You understand their situation and offer specific solutions. Certainty is more influential than enthusiasm.
- Multiple Reasons to Move Forward: You offer value beyond simply listing or showing a property. You provide unique insights that are compelling to each client.
6 Habits of Highly Persistent People (Condensed):
- Celebrate their work.
- Are driven by a purpose.
- Expect and prepare for resistance.
- Don’t take resistance personally.
- Use resistance to gain insights and add value.
Why Persistence Matters (Key Points):
- No Substitute: Persistence is essential. You either commit to figuring it out, or you don’t.
- Don’t Give Up Too Soon: Just because someone doesn’t agree immediately doesn’t mean the opportunity is lost.
- Consider the Cost of Inaction: What do you cost others by not following through?
- Addressing Common Objections:
- Different Communication Styles: Sometimes people need to hear the message differently, appealing to different emotional motives (Profit, FOMO, Comfort, Avoiding Pain, Love, Prestige).
- Need for More Reasons: Sometimes people need more value stacked onto the offer.
- Lack of Understanding How to Proceed: Sometimes people need guidance through the process.
- Need for Time: Sometimes people simply need more time to process the information.
My Conclusion:
Persistence, unlike pressure, always makes sense. It demonstrates your confidence and commitment. By empathizing, adjusting, and adding value, you can turn resistance into opportunity. And that is how you win the day.