Dollars Is Seventh on Our Own List. It’s the Only One They Ask About. Every leader in real estate knows how the recruiting conversation starts. An agent sits down, glances at the numbers, and asks the question you can set your watch by: “What’s your split?” And if we aren’t careful, we answer it. We […]
Tag: Growth Mindset
Why the Best Leaders Let People Flounder
Inspired by bestselling author and journalist Charles Duhigg’s research on how the best students and teachers excel. With the new school year starting, parents and kids are adjusting to new routines and fresh classrooms. But the research on how people actually master new skills is not just for students. As some of you know, besides […]
Four Blueprints for Turning Vision into Reality
Listening to my bachelor’s degree students pitch their business dreams this past week brought a jolt of energy into the room. Their drive is infectious. They see clear problems to solve, markets to capture, and lives they want to build. Sitting there listening, I kept coming back to a single question: What actually turns a […]
Being Larger Than the Situation
Here is a simple test for your mindset today: Do your circumstances dictate your mood? Or do you choose your mindset, and treat the situation as simply something to respond to? One sign of mental toughness is being larger than the situation. The less your mood depends on your circumstances, the more mentally tough you […]
Stack Your Way to a Stronger Real Estate Brokerage
Habit Stacking for Talent Attraction and Retention I’ve worked with leaders at 500 of the nation’s largest real estate firms, and I’ve found one universal truth: every broker-owner and their staff knows what they should be doing. Call five agents a day. Check in with top producers. Follow up with the recruit who said “maybe next […]
Configure the AI Before You Configure the Deal
Inspired by a recent Mark Cuban post on X. Mark Cuban posted a concept recently that I haven’t been able to stop thinking about. He noted that if he were a doctor with a private practice, he wouldn’t just hand a patient a referral and send them home. Instead, he would sit down with them […]
The Shiny Penny vs. The Consistent Producer: A Lesson from Pope Leo
I was listening to Pope Leo’s homily recently, and my mind eventually went to how I could apply this to you, to recruiting, and to retention. Say what? Stick with me for a second. Reflecting on beauty, Pope Leo pointed out something we all quietly know but rarely act on: we equate value with a […]
Busy Is Not the Same as Productive
Inspired by Jessi Hempel’s piece “The Case for Doing Fewer Things at Once” and her Hello Monday conversation with Cal Newport. Jessi Hempel wrote something recently that I have not been able to shake. She first put out a series on time in August 2024 because she was tired of getting to the end of […]
The Moonwalk Problem: Why Your Best Agent Crashes After Their Best Year
Inspired by a recent Scott D. Clary Success Story podcast conversation with Bear Grylls. On July 20, 1969, Buzz Aldrin walked on the Moon. He came home to ticker tape parades, heads of state, and the Presidential Medal of Freedom. A few years later he was selling cars at a Cadillac dealership, drinking heavily, and […]
Consistency Is Not a Personality Trait. It Is a Memory.
Consider this: Consistency may not be something you were born with or born without. It might be a memory your brain builds every time you complete what you started. I hear the other version constantly from broker owners, recruiters, loan officers, and top producers. “I’m just not a consistent person.” “My top agent has that […]








